There are relevant decisions one makes every day that influence what happens in the next 5 hours, 5 days, 5 months… Whenever I’m stuck in a decision like these, I check the Kard to use one of the four mind-maps I’ve found to be most effective to make one’s mind-reality move forward.
This works because the mind is designed to automate as much as possible and that same automation can become the obstacle limiting a situation to remain the same, to be stuck. going beyond that limit requires to take the mind beyond that limit. That is what these time-proven maps unlock.
Why use these maps?
Nature wastes nothing. The truth is that anyone’s mind is always performing at 100% capacity. The myth about using 10-15% of the mind really mans one being only able to access 10-15% most of the time, because the other 85-90% is operating automatically.
Getting stuck in a situation mostly happens because the automatic side of the mind (the 85-90%) does not yet know a different path and does not have any desire to do so. The purpose here is to unite both conscious and unconscious minds for the time needed to get unstuck, cross a limit.
These maps are time methods from different individuals who have uncovered useful ways to bridge the distance between one’s mind and one’s reality.
I’ve used these maps to:
- Change careers, industries and countries and unstuck my professional career growth.
- Recover my physical health from life threatening situations and also to drop a few inches on my waistline.
- Solve differences in personal, social and busienss relationships, to go beyond what is expected.
My gift to you are these four maps that can get you unstuck from any situation. They’re easy to learn and challenging to apply, still always generate results.
On using the card
1st question: am I stuck on the logical or emotional side of this situation?
One side of the kard is bright and relates to situations that are logical, yang. The other side is dark and relates to situations that are emotional, yin.
2nd question: Choose a map to use:
Yang – Polarity & Trilarity
Middle ground (polarity). Write down the 2 point of views to and (listen): what is similar within the differences and what is different within the similar.
New ground (trilarity). If the middle ground does not sufce, nd a new point of view. Note that if a ring is removed all are unlinked (Borromean Rings).
Yang – Mental States
The Pierce Diagram by Jose Luis Parise (edipo.org) illustrates the 4 states of the mind:
1+ Possible: to cease doing it.
1- Impossible: never cease not doing it.
-1 Necessary: never cease doing it.
+1 Contingent: cease without doing it.
Listen to yourself, identify where you are and move diagonally to advance the mind.
Yin – Decisions
Used in native American cultures (Jose Luis Parise, edipo.org) to be unstuck from an emotional struggle. The down-up sequence is:
1. An instant to observe (down).
2. Take time to learn (middle).
3. A moment to conclude (up).
When I write what each step means to my specic struggle, it opens up the emotion I need to move forward.
Yin – Labyrinth
The sevenfold labyrinth can be found all over the world. Among other uses, its path can help you with:
Releasing when entering, receiving at the center and reemerging when returning. Working on the seven chakras when following it’s path (Flower Of Life).
The kard: a gift from my journey to advance yours So that we leave with more than we we started with.